RIP LAYNE RIP MUSIC. In Demris case specific, you are doing an incredible job, because you are brave enough to tell us who was the real and captivating Demri Parrott. She would have made it clear when she was in a better place to do so, not while one is kicking. Everybody had their problems, not just Layne. I have heard that she is a very sweet and caring person. Songwriting abilities have nothing to do with personality. A loving comment from Kathleen (Demris Mother) after she ran into Darin Lamb and found out about my website for the first time what a blessing. That couldnt have been put in a better way! Heroin is a beast of a drug all its own in short or in laymans terms..it ruins your ability to be naturally happy. Mrs. Austin, you tell of how Demri suffered, how she had gifts, it was her calling in life to teach and not to learn and to give unconditional love to all, yet you put her grandmother and the headstone that she made for Demri, down. I know he blamed himself for Demri dying we all played the should a, could a, wouldda tape in our head. Take care, No one would have had any idea who she was if not for Layne. Being so removed from the reality of it all only made it more exciting though, and through all my adult years I have regularly sought out every bit of information I could about the real lives of the musicians involved, and in this case, their significant others. It is not worth experimenting with. I recently watched the Andrew Wood documentary and your words had me in floods of tears. She wasnt making a lot of money back then, but she did manage to get a lot of his. She and Layne, and Rosheen, Mike and all the friends are together and laughing, having fun and taking care of us. there is something so special about her. All the pain and suffering when their lives could have been filled with so much love and happiness. I just stumbled upon this website and I really love reading about Demri and Layne and about their time on earth. There was one time I found a spoon, and it was obvious what it had been used for. This site is so beautiful, props to those who made it/run it! Although Demri passed anyway, her mother remembers her fondly and without regret or anger. She wasnt out getting loaded and living it up thats Rachels story. That person that did comment bitched because nobody else did when they should have simply offered condolences or said something sweet but nooooooit was an asshole post. I guess there is so little real information out there, so these kinds of stories become defacto fact. . The surgery went good..(tryin to hurry) after surgery i got on suboxone n was doing really good for 6 months. Layne Staley & DEMRI PARROTT's Relationship: Tragedy, Love & Grunge What she looked like, how she dressed, & the decoupage shed make from angel& Victorian cutouts that she would paste on boxes & give as gifts. I have read that Demris mom is an Addiction Counselor. I am an addict and have been for years. The same to you, Barbara, Merry Christmas to you and your family. Demri died on Oct. 29th of 96 of a heroin overdose. Today. Demri would be proud of you Take care!! When I called Christy about Demris Wake she asked what happened because Demri had just been there Monday night, which was the 28th which matched with Tom. Xana. pfft, you didn't even fkn know her. It might have been here. Pictures and info about the woman who stole Layne Staley's heart and inspired fashion trends during the '90s Seattle grunge era. That sucks! My husband purchased it as a christmas gift for me. It took me a long time to figure out what to write here, but I felt compelled to say something. But NOBODY should romanticize this story. My heart goes out to Demris mother and family, same with Laynes. It is so scary and so serious. I know Demri got endocarditis as a result of heroin use, and all of the trouble that caused her. This drug is so powerful and addicting that people will keep using even when theyre slowly killing themselves, ruining their lives and hurting the people they love the most! Pictorials. Who was more self conscience than Layne esp. Who is Demri Parrott dating? Demri Parrott boyfriend, husband Demri Parrott was engaged to Layne Staley (1992 - 1994). The EMTS never did anything but save your friends life. Maybe someday I will write that book but as of right now I do not have any concrete plans to do that.. and if I ever did write a book it would be about MY life not just theirs and then I would include stories that involved them but I could never write just a book about them.. to me that would be..weird, wrong possibly? I just had to say it. There are very few happy endings for heroin addicts. Alice In Chains frontman Layne Staley and model Demri Parrott's relationship started as a fairytale but turned out a tragic love story that people can still remember. Like you said Barbara some things sound partially right. Not sure about the legs. As mean and selfish as it may sound for an addict to abandon their loved ones THATS exactly what I am talking about! Or did others drive her to where she needed to go? By 96 or so, Jerry was fed up with Laynes fear of touring. JOHNNY BACOLAS I found out Layne was on heroin after the Van Halen tour in 91. Demri has haunted me on a regular almost daily basis since I first learned about her story. They both died alone, I know Demris mother and Aunt were with her, but in truth, everyone dies alone. Layne continued touring, they both continued the drugs. Ethnicity: English, Swiss-German, Irish, Scottish, remote Welsh, possibly 1/64th Cherokee Native American. Heroin becomes their lover, their mother, their friend. SomeoneI dont want to say whobrought him some heroin because they couldnt find any coke. However they clearly adored each other and this is why they remain such a large part of each others legacy. Layne with fans New Years Eve 1999, reportedly last public photo in Rosheen and Demri RIP Rosheen Raugi June 19th 1997 Rosheen was my best friend. Share your family tree and photos with the people you know and love. It turns my stomach. In my experience the Demri info isnt accurate. When Demri passed, Layne really took that hard. Demri looking sweet and beautiful.. she was such a natural beauty. I offered to go if it would help in any way (work was my drug) friends suck it up and help eachother. That was her. Thank You! Jerry did do some heroin but he was all about coke, girls, money and fame. Anyway.. hate to burst your bubble and mine.. because I was excited to see a video of her FINALLY but no that is not her. But as a fan who collects all kinds of memorabilia, it is nice to have. I read it within days. Which is one thing people whove never been addicted to opiates dont always understand and maybe never can. Its so sad that two talented people lost their innocent lives to the demons of drugs. But he never said so outright. Its sad because most society cant look past ones addiction to drugs although we all have some weakness or do something that would be frowned upon & even if one was perfect its still not right. , Hi, So . Finally, best of luck if you write a book Muself, I would love to produce a film documenting all of this. I often think what could have been if he just got clean, what kind of music hed be writing? The book was poorly written. Layne and Demri met at a party back in 1988 and it was love at first sight. He obviously didnt have the strength. Truly a loving person. Being and ex-heroin addict myself, I know first hand the trials and tribulations that come with doing hard drugs, trying to keep a relationship going with my addicted girlfriend, and playing in a rock band, all at the same time. I am not saying Rachel is a bad person, prior to this I thought she was a hat maker genious, but it was at the very least odd because they werent friends, but Demri always the gracious host even on her deathbed. She had dark brown eyes and dark brown hair (color). She studied at the Arlington High School, Washington (1984 1986); the Lakewood High School, Arlington, WA (1986); and the Douglas Anderson School of the Arts, Jacksonville, Florida (1985 1989). I know Mrs. Austin has lost more than Demri, may God Bless her, and Laynes mom has a grandchild, or grandchildren, by now. You are not invincible and you cant just experiment with Heroin. I remember looking out your window at the docks one time while you were on the computer, and I was making you listen to some stupid old song because I thought it was cool. Layne Staley's Last Photo - The Mystery Behind His Photos It wasnt a blatant thing, but it was definitely implied a couple of times that they wanted to know how he was. Layne later said that Demri wasnt too bothered by this, but I didnt know her then. I cant stand the new AIC, to me you cant really replace a lead singer the same way you can replace a bassist or something (sorry but its true), but anyway. I feels like Demri realised too late and by protecting everyone and trying to avoid them any further pain, she decided to leave. If I had been in that same situation, my own mother, who I love dearly, would not have been so loving. Stay away is all I can say, I have met very few people who have just tried heroin and not become addicted. I actually edited my response so I hope you got to read the whole comment I made. And there used to be a girl in my life who reminds me of Demri a lot. My nickname growing up was AD so if it was shortened by her she would call herself little D. Dont know unless she was doing a rap thing if she did that with others but do remember her correcting people who did say Dem, not Demri even to me. Its all in your head how this life is and if you can find away to stay positive then everything wont look so dark. I think there are clues around us every day of something more and that when we die were NOT gone forever so I will continue to believe that something happens I just dont know what it is yet. Demri didnt have money she combed the carpet and started using again. Demri and Layne: ibdreamy LiveJournal She was also seeing this new guy that her family hadnt met. This site https://icepicksandnukes.com/2011/12/16/setting-the-alice-in-chains-record-straight/ will let you fact check and their are some concert's where he talks pretty negative about her stealing and selling their equipment, etc. I also was a hard core heroin addict and my family and life suffered from it and I honestly did not have the willpower to save my self. If something seems amist, you need to stay on top of the situation or find someone who can. Dating seems illogical. Ive really been inspired by a lot of Laynes music, both AIC and Mad Season. For those of you who don't know, Layne Staley, the singer of Alice in Chains, was in the long time relationship with Demri Lara Parrot who sadly died in 1996 from drug overdose. I happened to know that my Mom.. who I love dearly and means the world to me would have no clue. Demri Parrott. Start a new life and meet new friends otherwise its always a phone call away and for addicts its just to easy to make that call. Big hugs! I love you. Maybe Koa was referring to one of them. This website is simply amazing, a treasure trove of information for those wanting to go under the surface. I was the only one with a real job and I should have been saving to travel but spent it on making Andy look amazing and it irks me to think someone is claiming to have made his hats! Jul 10, 2014 - Layne with fans New Years Eve 1999, reportedly last public photo in circulation. Most of her friends describe her as a very sweet and beautiful person, kind, peaceful and artistic. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Content on this page is contributed by editors who belong to our editorial community. I wish that Barcolas hadnt moved out. I do not know how much truth there is in the message must have the attributes and say their name. Just dropping in to see if there have been any new stories to read , Its awesome designed for me to have a web page, which is valuable designed for my knowledge. Her memorial service took place on November 2 at Neighborhood Christian Center, and donations were made to Harborview Adult Medicine Alcohol and Drug Rehabilitation, Harborview Medical Center in Seattle, Washington. People dont seem to understand how much Demri suffered the last 2-1/2 years of her life spent mostly in hospital several times on life support given hours to live or that she didnt complain and was always more concerned about others than herself. SORRY, but no one Ive known has ever STAYED clean for someone elses sake, because theyve been shamed or guilt tripped into getting clean. Frank Micelotta/Getty. Addiction can change a persons priorities and also put huge dent in their moral compass even having children isnt enough for some addicts.. the one love that people cherish the most in their lives. He hardly ever saw Jerry anymore, but Mike Inez was still kind of close with him. It floods your brains receptors with nothing but the good feeling chemicals and then when you try to say OK, Im done Ive had enough..Well, too badbecause your body and your brain will fight and lie to you..Just one more time it will sayyoull promise yourself over and over.. until you eventually just give up and cant fight it anymore because you get so violently sick. I know that. They broke up around spring summer 94, or maybe even earlier. I hope they are in peace and my prayers are with the family and friends. Makes me scared to have children. I guess most all questions have been answered on this lovely site. Thank you for your story. But of course I would hate to spread any lies or speculation; if youre a friend or relative that somehow comes across this and would like anything removed please let me know. Demri had a look that seemed to define the musical era, beautiful in a small-town way with her bright eyes, round cheeks, and curly hair. I pray every day that he does not experiment with H, because I know that he will not come back from that. Layne tried it, loved it. Sparing the details, I ended up having a stupid fight with her about Layne. Xana La Fuente, if youre reading this, I just want to tell you that I find you so inspiring too. And I used to live my life just like layne and demri. Demri died in October 1997, and you say that Rosheen died six months later. Certain parts of this story are definitely true. Hope to read some more posts soon. There are similar pics of Erin Everly & Axl Rose back in the day, to Layne & Demri. Demri Parrott, former GF of Layne Staley - findadeathforum.com Demri Parrott and Layne Staley were engaged for 2 years. He didnt seem to want to do it because he had a bad feeling about it. She was the biological daughter of Kathleen Ann ne Austin and Dennis Wayne Dougherty, but at the time of her birth, her 18-year-old mother had been married to Stephen John Parrott, aged 21, for 21 days. Quite a few wrongs have been righted by the existence of this site, the amount of BS out there about these individuals is beyond belief. Sounds like you are happy and settled now with your beautiful familyhave a good weekend xx, Barbara, I had an office in town and they kept bugging me to come over. and this: watch?v=LL29f0AehNI Much love to you, from W. Seattle xoxo. I thought here may be a good place. i recently posted this link on another demri question, but check out this site if you want to know about her. I know thats super personal n i thought i remember Barbara saying she didnt know specifics on what exactly happened. Jerrys almost entirely about money, or at least he was 3 years ago. (Back then we were still afraid of Aids and stuff and I dont mean Layne and Demri but others that came over. I can understand as well as empathize with Layne, Demri, and all addicts that have been seduced by a drug that seems so good at first. For life. Well, I found two videos with the same interview, but I can not post the comment with the link and I do not know why. She didnt want to be known asLayne Staleys girlfriend, but she started to be known this way. Now I see it selling online for $200!! But all the while enjoying experiences that you must cherish greatly, I imagine. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Addiction is no joke, I go to med school so I spend a lot of time in the hospital and its just awful what being addicted to something does to people. That is good news. For me, I was blesse dot have been there when it all happened ( Im from L.A. Demri always and forever a wild wood pixie. For university, she studied at Douglas Anderson School of the Arts, Jacksonville, Florida (1985 - 1989). You are brave and strong and you do all Demris fans a favor telling us about her and running this site. "Layne supplied nearly all the money for their addictions. RIght before Demri died she had been about to move to Hawaii with her father (or stepfather, I forget which.) I have never been in that position so Im sure its not nearly that easy. I have been a long time fan of Layne Staley. What does that tell you? PS: Sorry for my bad english, hopefully my words have been understood. She seemed to have style that was individual in fashion and photography. Around October 20th or so she made some phone calls and wrote some letters to some people. You may never read this, but I hope that you do, from a nothing person, who is just concerned and someone who cares. Doesnt matter though that she was not mentioned in her obituary because I know that Rosheen knew how important she was to Demri and Rosheen was at her funeralso that probably hurt her. I have never known Mike to lie and I knew him a long time. I find it hard to believe. Kathleen will verify the full name thing too. Sometimes, we forget that they are people too. 17 talking about this. Shed stay a few nights. Opiate Addiction is selfish to the core. You are a survivor and your story is so important, especially to those that struggle xx, Hi Barbara, just wanted to share this video with you, just in case this photo in it is Demri http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlGZfqQzpvU. Dear Barbara, I dont think many people did, to be honest with you. Thank you so much for sharing your stories. I am very sorry about your lossI hate cancer and congrats on doing good, keep strong. Not really a big deal Need to search harder for the better ones. I cant say I know much about her, but in the end, I hate the idea of romanticizing two junkies seemingly feeding off of each other. Endocarditis is the end result of shooting with dirty needles or sharing them. I was a weird kid because I liked all different types of music that kids my age didnt like because it was considered uncool. I bumped into this web site and it was a very nice memorial for Layne and Demri. Jerry is one of the best melody writers ever, and Layne was a virtuoso vocalist and obviously his lyrics resonate with so many people. Christy the drug dealer lived behind the QFC and so did Paris. Demri Lara Parrott (1969-1996) - Find a Grave Memorial She was talking to another guy right behind Layne and she was wearing black shirt and shorts. He started doing this whole big martyred thing in the press Im standing by Layne, even though its making me sufferrrrrrr! but in private he was slipping the knife in. Teri, Mark Arms girlfriend, was maybe going to live there and then Chad from RHCP did for a little bit but they all had their issues. You were like a mom to them,making sure they were eating and breathing. . im not an angel either, no one is, but alchohol is my stupid drug, whish it wasnt so, makes you fat and sick. Mind, I never knew him entirely well and I never saw him do it, but its what people were saying. When I was on dope I just didnt care and all that mattered was how I was going to get better or keep from being sick it wasnt even about getting high anymore because it would take $500 to vet high once for a couple of hours. Friends comment that after Demri died, Layne was put on suicide watch for 24 hours. Think about it like this who could write a book about you? . Demri Parrott was buried at the Miller-Woodlawn Memorial Park in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, USA. Her zodiac star sign was Pisces. I started to dislike him then. Mike, Rosheen, Andrew Wood and now sadly.. the list grows.. Chris Cornell who was an amazing man, husband and Father and Friend. It was copied and posted to several different places. Haha. Check it out and let me know. That kind of clientele. OBITUARIES - products.kitsapsun.com She had been using off and on for a few months. Hopefully, this still reaches you today. Was it the greater love that made them sole matesdrugs? Their own Children, Parents, best friends, partners and lovers do not usually stand a chance against it. The website will forever live on my server for those seeking to learn a little more. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Demri was born in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, in the United States of America's Pacific Northwest. I miss you, Demri. I do get it a little but its silly. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Its a terrible disease and I have seen so many patients that I treated and transported from the streets of Detroit that had it from shooting up. Guys wanted to be noticed by you and most girls wanted to be like you or be your friend! I wish they had suboxone and subutex available then instead of methadone clinics, I think it wouldve been easier on them. Finally, best of luck if you write a book Muself, I would love to produce a film documenting all of this. Then I read this post and it all made sense who this Koa is and what her role might have been in their lives. Sorry I really wasnt trying to make this about me just stating that the daily struggle is so hard and it always helps to have those who have been there talk you through it. So we run back to the thing that we thought made us happy again and then after a while that does not even work anymore. When Layne didnt feel like eating Johnny could get him to drink an Ensure sometimes 2 or 3. This website was also made with the AIC fans in mind and to introduce you to themthe real Demri not just the girlfriend of Layne Staley. But sometimes feeling it completely is what we need to do. Someone who took many drugs, uppers, downers,narcotics, yet she always tried to better herself, in acting, in life. Demri lost that place in Feb. Because she could no longer afford the rent on her own. Haha! Get over yourself and if you remember to comment then be positive and stop snapping at people. Stills. Demri was okay with paying half, but not all. xoxox, Thank you Violet for the sweet comment..